Please consult these questions and their answers before emailing me with questions.
No. Even if you see that I have accepted guest posts in this past, the answer is still no. Asking me anyways is suuuper irritating, and you’ll receive the sour side of me as the result of ignoring my boundary.
I’m asked almost every. single. day if someone can write an article/buy article space on my blog, which shows me that my blog is just a blog to them and that they don’t know anything about my blog.
No. Accepting book review requests is wayyy more trouble than it’s worth. Feeling obligated to read and review a book removes the fun from reading.
No, you don’t.
💓 Dear Autism Parents
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No. Why do men think this is an appropriate question?
As if I would be against human rights.
I have dissociative identity disorder.
✨ Systems pronouns are they/them. Individual alter pronouns vary.
✨ The littles are not allowed online.
✨ It’s not okay to ask who is fronting right now.
✨ It’s not okay to ask to speak to a specific alter.
✨ It’s not okay to use DID against us maliciously lately just because you’re mad/hurt/etc. Doing so gets you cut from the system relationships.
✨ It’s okay to ask for DID-specific content and/or for an alter to write about a specific topic.
✨ Our headspace looks a lot more like Inside Out instead of a house, castle, neighborhood or car.
✨ If, in person, you witness long-term dissociation (looks like catatonia), please make sure the environment around us is safe or get us out of harm’s way.
✨ My system does not inter-date.
✨ We practice functional multiplicity.
Have a Q you don’t see here? Email me. 💖