Jane Lively

I'm Jane Lively, autistic cat mom to a tortoiseshell named Galaxy and the only author of Lemon & Lively. I have a slew of chronic conditions that add tension to my life in the most unromantic way.

Currently chronicling my journey to a sustainable lifestyle for me, while grieving what I wanted my life to look like.

19 January 2026
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Tips to step outside your comfort zone

8 January 2026
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The Sims 4 Guide: Making generational gameplay more fun

2 January 2026
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10 things to never say to abuse victims

26 December 2025
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10 things to never say to people with depression

18 December 2025
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My cousin: My abuser, Collin County’s favorite diversity advocate

13 December 2025
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What NOT to say to someone with a chronic illness

10 December 2025
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How to write a helpful blog post that connects with your audience

3 December 2025
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Lively Lately #80: not the Jane you know

18 November 2025
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Tips to writing autistic characters