dissociative identity disorder
Dissociative identity disorder (DID) is a trauma disorder wherein the brain adapts to insurmountable trauma by creative means and compartmentalizes the identity of a body as a survival technique.
DID is meant to go unnoticed, so most systems and people around them remain unaware. Covert systems tend to dress/behave the same and mask mannerisms; overt systems express themselves more noticeably.
I’m a dissociative identity disorder (DID) system who’s tired of living covertly. We are learning to be an overt system in order to heal and practice functional multiplicity. Individually, my pronouns are she/her; collectively, we are they/them.
I want to normalize chatter about multiplicity, living life as a system, and increase awareness about the disorder mistakenly referred to as multiple personality disorder or “split personality”. In 1994, psychologists concluded DID, and other dissociative disorders, is a trauma-related disorder and not personality-related — so let’s cut the crap already.
The Mermaid System is a system of 16, most dormant.
This blog is but a window into our life.

Autism burnout
3 February 2022
Defining "fake" readers highlights ableism, ignorance and the pathologizing of autistic + neurodivergent behavior
29 January 2022
On reading spoilers to books, movies, TV shows
20 January 2022
Single lesbian matches with woman still living with her ex-girlfriend post-breakup
19 January 2022
Single lesbian matches with poly woman on Tinder and accidentally screenshots a Snapchat
31 December 2021
2021 OUT // 2022 IN.
25 November 2021
Jane Lately #62: Sleep debt, loneliness, moving woes
8 November 2021
Perpetual f*cking identity crises
14 October 2021
Navigating plurality as an actually autistic adult
16 August 2021
Dissociative identity disorder is about unique identities, not fluctuating personalities.
13 August 2021
Dissociative Identity Disorder Alter Roles + Functions Master List
7 August 2021
Genital preferences, dissociative identity disorder and body dysphoria, transphobia, phallophobia & tokophobia
24 July 2021
As a DID system, we abide by what we call the Darling Code
20 July 2021
No one is an adult.
24 June 2021